May 5, 2014- Mindfulness and Concentration are The Keys (2)
Cr: my friend's photo from facebook
Have I still got your attention? Please Please Please, I am begging you to sit here for a while before going. Let me explain why I had to leave this blog and concentrated on my tasks on hands instead of blogging here. To tell you the truth, I could not write what I did not know and did not perceive the essence of the knowledge I like to communicate. If you find yourself in having no brain, you will certainly start to set about turning around your situation by getting a new information or experiences before writing it out and getting out of your difficulties you have first, right?
As for me, since leaving my last message of mindfulness, there was the most crucial element of success I seriously had to take care of at that moment- "my son and I". In clear, the changer project is now proving itself in the stage of its CONCENTRATION. You know, the Changer is not a ready made writing or book you can take from the shelf. It is a LIVE-LIFE written project for English learning and for improving the writer and the reader self- mastery! Fortunately, having exhibited my writing to my readers via real- time experiences for a while, I had to accept that it was very hard in facing with all challenges in earning my life while sticking with my plan in blogging every days. In other words, I have met my point in writing the Changer; to improve my abilities in writing and to transmit my insight knowledge I have to increase my income and achieving my financial independence first. To illustrate, simply increasing my time in investing myself here by working longer than twenty four- hour a day does not ensure that I can fluent my English and can finish my writing- the Changer.
The fact is that, I have to accept complete responsibility for my situations that I could not taking action in all tasks on hands when problems arise. That is the key! Just let it go! Todays, I am concentrating my powers on only some crucial issues such as; preparing a proposal for doing a research or for my further education, taking care of my son and parents, and renovating my rental place for investment. Surely, it is not easy. it is not a straight line at this stage of life in the real situation but I have been trying in developing my goals into plans again and again until these actions becomes my habit of present- moment awareness. Certainly, I could not avoid negative mood, bad feelings, or unexpected situations that always show up on the important moments. However, by being mindful at work and concentrating on my thoughts in wanting to win my success, I could avoid falling into the trap- just consistently speak positively to myself and keep creating a clear possible mental pictures of my new updated goals. I refuse to complain but finding to be more clearer and clearer about what I would like to accomplish. Remember, it is really important to not blame yourself that you are not a well- planner if you have to change your goals or plans because you are the only person who know the best for your life not others.
Just a little time in putting pen on paper; I mean my blog^ ^, in which I am now concentrating on with enjoyment. Perhaps, this slow writing, one of my slow life movement, is now becoming a part of my newly research topic of growth management and slow city.
Begin your searching, take control of your life by being mindful as well as concentrating on your track to run, and go out like me. Then, you can lead your life on your own. I do hope my words here can motivate you to understand yourself and to change your life from your passion and your heart and soul. Certainly, I am waiting and hoping that someone will be back here to talk about his/her progress in life.
My last line, have many nice days and take care until our parts, oops! sorry!, paths will cross again,
Pim
